The One Thing that Ends Struggle

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Written by Eve

April 5, 2020

How committed are you to your goals?  This is important because your level of commitment to anything is a big indicator of the success and ease you’ll experience in that area.  I’m always amazed at what happens when we truly commit to something, be it personal, professional or in any area of our lives.

It’s like universal support flows in and struggle starts to melt away.  When you truly commit to something with all your heart, resistance starts to release as you find new ways to move toward what you want and everything gets easier.

So here’s my question to you—what do you want to commit to for the remainder of the year and what resources can you put in place to support you in manifesting your goal?

This might be growing your business or career in a way that truly honors your gifts.  It could be creating more freedom and financial prosperity in your life, having more fun and joy in your day, or taking your health and relationships to the next level.

Whatever you want to commit to, use these Three Tips to make your journey easier:

  1. Find a way to Align Your Commitment to Your Values –This is essential! If you commit to something that doesn’t align with your values, you won’t be able to commit to it fully and you may struggle for years. You’ll experience a lot of self-doubt and questioning.  You may even feel yucky or go into hiding instead of taking action because deep inside you’ll feel like you don’t really want what you are committing to.

If this sounds like you, don’t despair or think that you have to abandon your goal. Instead, begin to view your goal from new perspectives to see how you can approach it in a way that it truly aligns with your ideals.  Sit with a friend, colleague or trusted coach to take a good look at what you want and how you can align your goals with your values and you’ll be moving into inspired action very quickly!

  1. Get the Support You Need–Staying committed to your dream becomes so much easier when we share with compassionate people who can help us along the way. Repeat after me three times: “I don’t have to do it all alone. I don’t have to do it all alone.  I don’t have to do it all alone.”  Because so many of us come from cultures that have celebrated the individual over the group, we often feel like we can’t reach out for assistance.  It can be so profound to remember that we really all do need and deserve support.  I know you give others assistance all the time.  Make this the year when you choose to receive so you build the foundation that will allow you to manifest your dream with ease.
  1. Commit in the Spirit of Forgiveness & Freedom—Some people feel afraid to commit because they are either afraid that they will be disappointed or they feel they will become trapped by their commitment. Either way they remain uncommitted to what they really want and often experience a great deal of struggle. If either of these speaks to you, take time to forgive yourself and heal the patterns that are creating your resistance.  Remember that like anything, committing to your goals is simply a choice you are making and you are always free to choose something else.

Ultimately when you commit, you are making a commitment to your own happiness and fulfillment, which is always worth committing too!

Post below and let us know what you want to commit to for the remainder of the year. Research shows that writing down your goals and sharing them with at least 1 supportive person increases your chances of achieving your goals by 97% (really!). Share with us below so we can support you on your journey!

2 Comments

  1. Suzanne

    The idea of being trapped in a commitment really resonated with me. When I’m in, I’m all in. So the idea of committing to a scenario that I can’t see in complete fullness has had me stagnating a little.

    I do have the freedom of committing to ME though. And if the scenario changes and no longer serves my greater good, then I do have the freedom to step back.

    That’s a game changing perspective 😊

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    • Eve

      Suzanne, thank you for sharing. You are not alone–so many people experience this. I love how you’ve already transformed this pattern by shifting your awareness that your commitment is to yourself, so if anything doesn’t serve your greatest good, you always have the freedom to change directions. Feels so liberating! Excited for you as you take this new mindset into your life. xoxo, Eve

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